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  • The Week of the Young Child

    by Emily Roberts | Apr 24, 2018

    Last week our Child Development Center celebrated the Week of the Young Child! Each year, the National Association for Education of Young Children (NAEYC) designates a week to honor early learning and the families at our shelter were able to be a part of the celebration.

    The theme for this special celebration was “You are my Sunshine,” reminding the children at our shelter who have been exposed to such trauma that they bring sunshine and light into many lives. Each day during the Week of the Young Child we celebrated in a different way.

    Monday’s celebration was dedicated to music. The children enjoyed a dance party in a room filled with instruments, ribbons, disco lights, and more allowing the kids to have fun and be active.

    Tuesday was "Taco Tuesday" – a day dedicated to taste! The generous cooking staff at our Emergency Shelter created a menu full of fun flavors while also promoting healthy eating habits and fitness.

    Wednesday was “Work together Wednesday.”  Children used our large Rigamajig to construct the fort of their dreams! Their creative skills were reinforced while exploring math and science concepts. 


        

    On Thursday the kids focused on art by using their handprints to create a large sun. The mural reminds the children that by working together they can make something beautiful. And, the final product is a wonderful addition to our lobby!

        

    Friday was “Family Friday.” Our Behavior Intervention Specialist, Gennie, offered a free parent training to support parents who have questions about their child’s development and behavior. Immediately following the training the Child Development Center hosted a “Picnic on the Playground”  for mothers, children and teachers to eat together while enjoying the spring weather.

    Engaging and celebrating families is at the heart of supporting our young learners. We had a sunshiney week with our beloved parents, children and teachers!
  • 40 Stories for 40 Years: Aaliyah Miranda

    by Emily Roberts | Apr 18, 2018

    Aaliyah Miranda was born in Mexico and came to Dallas when she was 16. She married right after high school and stayed in the abusive relationship for eight years before reaching out for help. In 2000, she came to The Family Place’s emergency shelter with no money or job skills. She and her two sons stayed at the shelter for 30 days and then applied for our transitional housing program where they stayed for three months.


    A year later, her ex-husband sued for custody of one of her boys, which was granted. This forced her to give her son back to her abuser. Aaliyah was destroyed by this, but she sought counseling and support from The Family Place’s South Dallas Counseling Center, which helped her acquire the necessary tools to get back on her feet. She decided to go back to school and fight for her children.


    After taking ESL classes, she enrolled in college classes. Working and studying at the same time brought a lot of sleepless nights, but she was determined to accomplish her goal. Aaliyah earned an associate’s degree from Mountain View College, but that was only the start. She graduated cum laude from the University of Texas in Arlington with a bachelor’s degree in Spanish and went on to obtained a master’s of Education with dual language emphasis. She has continued graduate studies at Southern Methodist University and is currently pursuing a doctorate from Texas A&M University-Commerce. She plans to complete her dissertation in August 2018.


    Years after losing custody of her son, Aaliyah reunited with him, and both of her boys are currently in college. She remarried five years ago and has worked in education for 13 years, currently as an assistant principal in Grand Prairie. Aaliyah is a member of The Family Place’s Board of Directors and Ladies of Leadership, a group of survivors turned advocates. She is also the president of a Toastmaster International Club where she shares her story.


    “Thanks to the support I received from the Family Place, I found the courage to be where I am today. I used to be shy, had low self-esteem, and didn’t believe in myself,” Aaliyah says. “The Family Place showed me there are people who care about you without even knowing you, and I will be forever grateful.”

  • 40 Stories for 40 Years: Virginia Whitehill

    by Emily Roberts | Apr 10, 2018

    Virginia Whitehill, an early supporter of The Family Place, was born into the women’s movement. Her mother, Myrtle Bates Bulkley marched for women’s suffrage and raised her daughter to be a strong voice for change. We honored Ginny in 2006 as a Texas Trailblazer for her tireless advocacy for women.

    Ginny was instrumental in getting funding for our work. After facing some push back from fellow Junior League of Dallas members when she lobbied for funds, Ginny employed her trademark wit and wisdom.

    “I said it wasn’t about women’s rights, it was about fighting crime, and, gosh, maybe it would be good to be safe from crime in your own home,” Ginny said.

    Initial funding from the Junior League of Dallas and the National Council of Jewish Women enabled The Family Place to hire our first executive director and legitimized us with other funders. Junior League of Dallas volunteers have been essential to our work ever since.


  • 40 Stories for 40 Years: Caroline Richards

    by Emily Roberts | Mar 30, 2018

    Caroline hadn’t been married long before her husband began abusing her. One day after church, she was holding her 11-month-old granddaughter when she and her husband got into an argument. He began to choke her until she passed out, and she and the baby both fell to the floor. She crawled to her nearby bedroom. And, with weak and shaking hands, called 911. The police came and arrested her husband.


    Caroline got a restraining order against her husband, and a counselor at her church told her about The Family Place. During her marriage she suffered physical, sexual and financial abuse, but counseling at The Family Place helped her see that change was possible.


     “I was so ashamed and embarrassed to tell anyone, but I broke that silence and took my voice and my life back,” she says. “The Family Place showed me how to be victorious and bold.”


    Caroline divorced her husband and now has a job, is attending school and is in the process of purchasing a home. She is in the leadership program at The Family Place and is a member of Toastmasters. Caroline says the resources at The Family Place empowered, motivated and equipped her to take a stand against domestic violence.

  • 40 Stories for 40 Years: Erika Kiser

    by Emily Roberts | Mar 14, 2018

    Erika Kiser was a victim of domestic violence and didn’t even know it. Her husband was addicted to heroin and had just lost his job when they got into an argument that led to a physical altercation. When she called the police, they arrested her.


    “When I came to The Family Place I was broken and felt like I was beyond repair,” Erika says. “I honestly don’t remember how I got The Family Place … I’m just glad I did.”


    Erika attended both group and one-on-one counseling sessions. In group she learned that she wasn’t alone. Other women were going through the same things. Although she fought her one-on-one counselor on almost every task she was given, she says it was exactly what she needed. Her two children also received counseling at The Family Place. They didn’t see the physical violence, but Erika says they were just as emotionally abused as she was, and counseling helped them understand what was happening.


    Her husband later died, and, even though he had abused her, his death affected her greatly. She considered committing suicide but knew her children needed her.


    Today, Erika is the campus registrar at Alex W. Spence Middle School and TAG Academy. She has also been a client board member representing The Family Place with Legal Aid of Northwest Texas for almost three years. 


    “It’s hard to imagine where my kids and I would be if it hadn’t been for The Family Place. The Family Place saved my life and my sanity.” Erika says. “I’m truly thankful to God for The Family Place, and I love every single minute of my life now."


  • 40 Stories for 40 Years: United Way of Metropolitan Dallas

    by Emily Roberts | Mar 07, 2018

    Since 1981, the United Way of Metropolitan Dallas has been a critical funder of programs at The Family Place.

    “Family violence prevention is a key strategy to achieve United Way’s 2020 Community Goal of improving health throughout the region,” said Jennifer Sampson, McDermott-Templeton President and CEO of the United Way of Metropolitan Dallas. “Our investments in programs at The Family Place are effectively working to break the cycles of abuse in North Texas.”

    When United Way celebrated its 90th anniversary in 2014, the first of its “Nine for 90” service projects was at The Family Place Safe Campus. Dallas Cowboys Legend Darren Woodson joined volunteers from Texas Instruments and Alliance Data to paint, replace shutters and transform the playground at the campus for the women and children living there.


    Jennifer Sampson


    “The Family Place has become a national model in eliminating family violence,” Sampson said. “Its extraordinary leader Paige Flink is at the heart of it all. A passionate, vocal advocate for ending family violence, Paige has always had my deepest admiration. We share a commitment to ensuring that all North Texans have a safe and secure place to call home.”

  • 40 Stories for 40 Years: Hope Woodson

    by Emily Roberts | Feb 28, 2018

    After Hope Woodson left her abusive marriage her son’s behavior changed drastically. His grades started slipping, and his behavior worsened at home and school. He had outbursts where he became extremely sad and then lashed out in anger. Hope called the Family Place after seeing a news story where our counselors assisted a young man having similar issues, and she and her children started coming to one-on-one and group counseling sessions.

    “We learned how to express ourselves without anger and how to channel feelings of sadness and uncertainty.  Most importantly, we learned that there was a light at the end of the tunnel, and that we weren’t alone,” Hope says. “It wasn’t easy at first, but sharing my truth with women that had gone through similar experiences gave me confidence, strength and encouragement.”


    Today, Hope’s son is an 8th grader who is excelling in school and plays three sports. Hope is a member of The Family Place’s Ladies of Leadership, a group of survivors-turned-advocates that volunteer and share their experiences at various community events. She is also serving on The Family Place Partners Auxiliary Board for 2018.


    “I couldn’t be more excited and proud of this opportunity to serve an organization that has positively impacted and transformed my life,” she says.


  • 40 Stories for 40 Years: Lamisa Mustafa

    by Emily Roberts | Feb 21, 2018

    Lamisa Mustafa got involved with The Family Place's Be Project last year during her senior year at Newman Smith High School in Carrollton. The Be Project’s Nikki Head sat in on a Human Rights Forum meeting, where she met Lamisa, who then helped set up a Be Project violence awareness prevention presentation at Newman Smith. Founded in 1999, Be Project reaches out to youth in area elementary, middle and high schools, and on college campuses teaching them about healthy relationships to prevent bullying, teen dating violence and sexual assault. The program is called the Be Project to encourage students to Be Safe, Be Kind, Be Courageous and Be More. The connection qualified Lamisa to apply for The Family Place’s 2017 Verizon Scholarship, which she won! She’s now using the $1,500 to help fund her studies at Southern Methodist University (SMU) where she is a first-year student double majoring in Human Rights and Sociology.


    “The Family Place Be Project equipped me to stand up for victims of assault, violence, harassment and abuse and also empowered me to fight for myself,” Lamisa says. “I’m glad that organizations like The Family Place exist to remind survivors that they are never alone. It is on all of us to dismantle oppressive and discriminatory policies, practices, systems and cultures.”


    Lamisa is also the Community Outreach Intern for the SMU Embrey Human Rights Program. In this role, she works on the annual Human Rights Youth Summit, high school recruitment, education and outreach, storytelling initiatives, and student mobilization to create connections between SMU, Dallas and beyond.


    “I love my job, as I get to work with fellow champions of human rights to provide an inclusive community for students passionate about community outreach, activism and social change. It's like coming full circle, because I get to help plan the events and share the stories that convinced me to do this challenging yet rewarding work of changing hearts and minds in the first place.”

  • 40 Stories for 40 Years: Eliza Solender

    by Emily Roberts | Feb 09, 2018

    Eliza Solender, president of Solender/Hall, Inc., has been a part of The Family Place’s progress since the earliest days. Recruited to serve on the board by our founder and first board president, Gerry Beer, Eliza became our third board president following Margaret Estes, and served from 1985 to 1987. During Eliza's leadership, her goal was to broaden our funding base, which soon included funding from the City of Dallas, an increase in our United Way allocation, and creation of an endowment fund with $650,000 from The Crystal Charity Ball.

    Eliza Solender
    “Looking back at myself as a young and inexperienced board president, I am so grateful for the support I received from the board members,” Eliza says. “Many were much more experienced nonprofit directors. The board and Gail Griswold, the first executive director, were open to new ideas and very entrepreneurial. An amazing number of new funding initiatives were accomplished during that period.”

    Eliza’s experiences at The Family Place and on other nonprofit boards became the basis for her idea to form Solender/Hall, Inc. in 1991 as a commercial real estate brokerage company specializing in nonprofit organizations.

    “The Family Place was one of my first clients and continues to be today including representing the organization on the acquisition of the site for the new Ann Moody Place facility,” she says. “I am indebted to The Family Place for giving me the opportunity to continue to serve the organization and am so proud of all that has been accomplished over the past 40 years."

  • 40 Stories for 40 Years

    by Emily Roberts | Jan 31, 2018
    2018 marks the 40th anniversary of The Family Place. All year long we will be sharing stories of family violence survivors, community supporters and the women and men who have helped save lives and make The Family Place the national leader it is today. Join us as we commemorate our 40th birthday all year long!

    About The Family Place
    In 1978, a group of community volunteers organized The Family Place as one of the first family violence shelters and service organizations in the state with a mission to eliminate family violence through intervention and proactive prevention, extensive community education, advocacy and assistance for victims and their families. Today The Family Place is the largest family violence service provider in North Texas, serving 10,049 clients with 130,996 hours of service last year alone. Over the past 40 years, we have counseled more than 215,000 clients, provided lifesaving shelter to more than 24,000 women, children and men, and answered more than 600,000 calls for help. We have helped more than 18,800 batterers learn how to change their abusive behavior and reach approximately 6,000 students each year through our youth education programs. All of our programs are provided in Spanish and in English.

  • Celebrating the Opening of Ann Moody Place

    by Emily Roberts | Jun 28, 2017


    The Family Place hosted an Open House for its new facility, Ann Moody Place on Sunday, June 4, 2017 for board members, donors, community leaders and others involved in The Family Place.

    Among the 200 guests in attendance were current and past board members of The Family Place, donors to the Legacy Capital Campaign, board members of Partners Auxiliary, members of Young Partners Auxiliary, members of the SakeKeepers Giving Society, Mayor Mike Rawlings, local city council representatives, District Attorney Faith Johnson, administrators from local hospitals including Parkland Memorial Hospital, Children’s Medical Center of Dallas and Baylor University Medical Center, financers of the facility, local artists whose work is on display in the building, in-kind donors, project partners and The Family Place staff.

    Attendees sat in the Paige Flink Healing Garden and the Make It Count Children’s Playground while speakers made remarks from the second floor balcony. Lynn McBee, President of The Family Place Foundation Board, welcomed all attendees to the program and thanked the top donors to the facility. Mayor Mike Rawlings took to the podium to say a few words about the importance of the facility. Frances Moody-Dahlberg spoke and thanked The Family Place for allowing the Moody Foundation to be part of their amazing work in the community. Paige Flink, CEO of The Family Place, thanked all the in-kind donors to the facility, and shared about a recent encounter with a survivor of domestic violence. Hilary Own, Director of Restoration Ministries at Highland Park United Methodist Church, blessed the new facility.

    Paige Flink returned for a special ceremony. With the help of children on the balcony, Flink released 16 monarch butterflies to honor the 16 women from Dallas and Collin Counties who lost their lives due to domestic violence in 2015. After the memorial, Eric White, President of The Family Place Board of Directors, concluded the program and invited all guests to tour the new facility.

    The Family Place Board of Directors acted as docents for areas of interest during self-guided tours. Highlights included 47 emergency shelter beds, expanded space for the Dignity at Work job readiness program, Be Project offices for bullying and teen dating violence prevention, medical and dental clinics, and animal kennels for victims who don’t want to leave pets behind when fleeing an abusive situation.

    Designed by leading architecture and design firm Corgan, the facility is also home to administrative and program offices. A capital campaign began with a $5 million lead gift from the Moody Foundation and concluded with a $1 million match grant from Highland Capital Management, for a total raised of over $16,898,000.

    Ann Moody Place is located in Dallas, TX. Access to The Family Place shelters and other resources is available by calling the 24-Hour Hotline (214) 941-1991.



    Guests gathered in the Paige Flink Healing Garden for remarks


    Board Members Mary McNulty, Julie Hoad and Radhika Zaveri


    Mike and Sammye Myers, Mayor Mike Rawlings



    Paige Flink, Frances Moody-Dahlberg, Lynn McBee


  • Family Violence Doesn't Take a Holiday

    by Emily Roberts | Dec 22, 2016

    CONTACT

    Melissa Sherrill

    (214) 443-7710

    mmsherrill@familyplace.org


    Family Violence Doesn’t Take a Holiday:

    Domestic Violence Resources Save Lives During Stressful Season

    DALLAS – The holiday season is stressful for all of us, but particularly so for victims of domestic violence. The holidays can add one more layer of pressure to already volatile relationships. It’s important for victims to know that The Family Place, Dallas’ largest domestic violence agency, is here for them providing comprehensive resources and safety.

    “Financial pressures, the increased consumption of alcohol, and holiday expectations can all raise stress levels and lead to incidents of domestic violence,” said Paige Flink, CEO of The Family Place. “Our Safe Campus is a peaceful refuge for survivors, and we work to make it a happy and joyful place for children, especially during the holidays.”

    For most holiday chaos means battling long lines at the mall, but for victims of family violence, the battle can be life threatening. In Texas 158 women were killed by intimate partners in 2015, according to the Texas Council on Family Violence. Dallas County was second only to Harris County with 13 women killed by intimate partners in 2015. Family violence murders are on the rise in Tarrant County and Collin County with six and three fatalities, respectively. 37% of women killed in 2015 had taken steps to end their relationships.

    The Family Place encourages those in abusive relationships to seek help and make a safety plan before leaving to protect themselves and their children. A safety plan is personal to each situation but typically contains contact information of a domestic violence agency or hotline, contact information of trusted friends and/or family, a packed bag of essentials, and important legal documents.

    Because more time is spent at home around family during the holidays, the likeliness of an incident may increase. If you find yourself in a volatile domestic violence situation, remain nonaggressive with your abuser. Know who to reach out to or where to go in case you leave the location. Stay away from rooms in the house with objects that could be used as a weapon, such as the kitchen or bathroom.

    “Anyone experiencing domestic abuse can reach out to The Family Place for help 24 hours a day through our hotline—(214) 941-1991,” Flink said. “We are here with shelter, counseling and support services that help victims escape, stay safe, and start new lives so that the violence doesn’t continue into the next generation.”

    About The Family Place

    The Family Place is one of the largest family violence service providers in the state of Texas providing services in Dallas and Collin counties. The agency works to eliminate family violence through intervention and proactive prevention, extensive community education, and advocacy and assistance for victims and their families. Since 1978 The Family Place has counseled more than 225,000 clients, provided lifesaving shelter to more than 22,000 women, children and men, and answered more than 550,000 calls for help. The Family Place has helped more than 20,000 batterers learn how to change their abusive behavior. Its Be Project provides bullying and teen dating violence prevention education to more than 6,000 students each year. In 2017 The Family Place will open the first family violence shelter for men and their children in the state. All programs are provided in Spanish and English.

    For more information:

    www.familyplace.org

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  • The Family Place Announces $1 Million Challenge Grant

    by Emily Roberts | Oct 04, 2016

    Contact: Mary Catherine Benavides

    214-443-7770

     mcbenavides@familyplace.org


    James Dondero Announces $1 Million Challenge Grant from Highland Capital Management to Finish The Family Place’s $16.5 Million Capital Campaign

    Dallas-Based Domestic Agency’s Ann Moody Place Will Serve 2,000 Victims Annually


    [Dallas, TX – October 4, 2016] – James Dondero, co-founder and president of Highland Capital Management, L.P., announced today that the firm has awarded a $1 million challenge grant to help The Family Place raise the final $2.8 million for its Legacy Campaign in the next six months. The announcement was made during The Family Place’s 21st Annual Texas Trailblazer Awards Luncheon at the Hilton Anatole in Dallas, Texas.


    The grant, administered through Highland Dallas Foundation, Inc., the philanthropic arm of Highland Capital Management, will match 50 percent of any funds raised for the capital campaign up to $1 million from now until April 4, 2017.  With $2.8 million needed to reach the campaign fundraising goal of $16.5 million, Highland’s challenge grant will ensure The Family Place finishes the campaign strong.


    Dondero said the grant answers a call to action by Dallas Mayor Mike Rawlings and Dallas Police Chief David Brown for the community to help solve this life-threatening issue in Dallas.


    “The civic community in Dallas gets things done,” Dondero said. “We at Highland Capital Management were impressed by the way The Family Place, through avid philanthropic support, took this concept from inception to the final stage of this campaign in just a year. We are proud to invest alongside many of the most generous and thoughtful in the community.”


    “For anyone considering this effort to provide lifesaving shelter and life-changing services to family violence victims in our community, this is a tremendous opportunity to multiply the impact of their gift,” said Paige Flink, Executive Director of The Family Place.


    The Family Place Legacy Campaign supports the construction and operations of a new Central Dallas Counseling Center for family violence victims named in honor of Ann Moody. Designed by leading architecture and design firm Corgan and construction by Hill and Wilkinson, Ann Moody Place includes 13 emergency shelter bedrooms, a medical and dental clinic, a centralized hotline/call center, multiple private and group counseling rooms for children and adults, and multipurpose spaces for job-training.


    The building will serve more than 2,000 victims annually providing critical emergency shelter space, since The Family Place’s existing emergency shelter already operates at capacity. Ann Moody Place will also house the agency’s Be Project, which provides bullying and teen dating violence prevention education reaching more than 6,000 students each year. The facility will have an animal shelter for families who will not leave abusive relationships for fear of leaving behind beloved family pets. It will also provide an on-site child development center.


    The continuum of care provided in this new facility—designed specifically for the delivery of services to family violence victims—is vital to saving lives.


    For more information about Ann Moody Place or The Family Place, please visit www.familyplace.org.


    ABOUT THE FAMILY PLACE

    The Family Place is the largest family violence service provider in the state of Texas. The agency works to eliminate family violence through intervention and proactive prevention, extensive community education, and advocacy and assistance for victims and their families. Since 1978 The Family Place has counseled more than 225,000 clients, provided lifesaving shelter to more than 22,000 women, children and men, and answered more than 550,000 calls for help. The Family Place has helped more than 20,000 batterers learn how to change their abusive behavior. Its Be Project provides bullying and teen dating violence prevention education to more than 6,000 students each year. In 2016 The Family Place will open the first family violence shelter for men and their children in the state. All programs are provided in Spanish and English.


    ABOUT HIGHLAND CAPITAL MANAGEMENT

    Highland Capital Management, L.P. is an SEC-registered investment adviser which, together with its affiliates, has approximately $17 billion of assets under management. Founded in 1993 by Jim Dondero and Mark Okada, Highland is one of the largest and most experienced global alternative credit managers. The firm’s diversified client base includes public pension plans, foundations, endowments, corporations, financial institutions, fund of funds, governments, and high net-worth individuals. Highland is headquartered in Dallas, Texas and maintains offices in New York, Sao Paolo, Singapore, and Seoul. Highland Dallas Foundation Inc., the philanthropic arm of Highland Capital Management, is a supporting organization of The Dallas Foundation.

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  • The Family Place to Break Ground on Ann Moody Place

    by Emily Roberts | Jun 16, 2016

    Media Contact: Allie Lesiuk
    SMPR
    allie@strausspr.com
    214-352-6700

    The Family Place to Break Ground on Ann Moody Place
    Dallas-Based Domestic Violence Prevention Agency Celebrates
    Its New Central Dallas Counseling Center With
    Ground Breaking Ceremony 

     

    Major Donors at Ann Moody Place

    Representatives from Top Donors to the Legacy Campaign
    Stephanie Bernal, Kaleta Doolin, Lynn McBee, Francie Moody- Dahlberg, Paige Flink, Sarah Losinger, Susan Farris, T. Hardie

    [Dallas, TX – May TK, 2016] – On Tuesday, May 17th The Family Place will host a ground breaking ceremony for its new facility, Ann Moody Place, projected to open in Spring 2017. Among those who will be in attendance are current and past board members of The Family Place, donors to the current capital campaign, board members of Partners Auxiliary, members of SafeKeepers Giving Society, local city council members, representatives from the District Attorney’s office and the Mayor’s office, first ladies of area churches, doctors and administrators from area hospitals, financers of the facility, and The Family Place staff.

    “Breaking ground on the Ann Moody Place is a milestone for The Family Place,” says Paige Flink, Executive Director [rst1] at The Family Place. “We’re looking forward to celebrating with everyone who has made this new facility possible. The Ann Moody Place will provide domestic violence victims with additional shelter and programs that we have not been able to provide to them before, many of which are the first of its kind in the country.”

    The ceremony will begin at 11:30 a.m. with lunch provided by Ruthie’s Rolling Cafe, with speeches commencing at 12 p.m. Mike Coffey, Board President of The Family Place, will welcome all attendees to the ceremony, followed by speeches from various attendees instrumental in[rst2]  the center. The event will conclude with speakers participating in the symbolic dirt digging ceremony to commemorate the breaking of ground on the Ann Moody Place. The speakers will give remarks in the following order:

    Welcome
    Mike Coffey
    Board President, The Family Place 

    Invocation
    Minister Cathy Moffitt, Heartfelt International Ministries

    Remarks
    Paige Flink
    CEO, The Family Place

    Lynn McBee
    Foundation Board President, The Family Place

    Frances Moody Dahlberg
    Trustee & Executive Director, The Moody Foundation

    Councilman Adam Medrano
    District 2

    Councilwoman Jennifer Gates
    District 13, Chair of Domestic Violence Task Force

    Todd Nordeen
    Senior Vice President, JPMorgan Chase Bank

    Ryan Suchala
    Dallas Market President, Bank of Texas

    Gilbert Gerst
    Chairman, Dallas Development Fund
    SVP, BOK Financial

    Designed by leading architecture and design firm Corgan, The Ann Moody Place will feature: 13 emergency shelter bedrooms, housing up to 30 victims whom are in grave danger; a centralized hotline/call center to efficiently place clients in shelter or counseling throughout the city; an on-site kennel for beloved family pets that might prevent victims from fleeing to safety without them; specially designed play therapy rooms with observation areas and multiple activity rooms where children can receive the counseling they need; multipurpose spaces for job training to help clients increase their financial security and serve our youth violence education prevention program to prevent future victimization; a medical and dental clinic where residents and medical students from U.T. Southwestern Medical School, Parkland, and local dentists and doctors, can provide free medical and dental services to clients and their children; and finally, multiple private and group counseling rooms for victims to receive support to break the cycle of violence.

    The Ann Moody Place is located in Dallas, TX. For more information about the Ann Moody Place or The Family Place, please visit www.familyplace.org.

    ABOUT THE FAMILY PLACE

    The Family Place is one of the first family violence service providers in the state with a mission to eliminate family violence through intervention and proactive prevention, extensive community education, and advocacy and assistance for victims and their families. The Family Place now provides the largest number of victim services for in the State of Texas. Since 1978, The Family Place has counseled more than 225,000 clients, provided lifesaving shelter to more than 22,000 women, children and men, and answered more than 550,000 calls for help. The Family Place has also helped more than 20,000 batterers learn how to change their abusive behavior. Its youth program, Be Project, reaches approximately 6,000 students each year through youth education programs In 2016, The Family Place will also be the first to open a shelter dedicated to serving the growing need of our male clientele.. All the programs are provided in Spanish and in English. For more information, visit www.familyplace.org.

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  • The Family Place in Dallas plans to open first Texas shelter for battered men

    by Emily Roberts | Jan 20, 2016

    Dallas' The Family Place plans to open first Texas shelter for battered men

    January 20, 2016
    by Jeff Mosier
    The Dallas Morning News

    Dallas family violence cases increased by 7 percent last year. But the most stark rise at one local shelter was in the number of battered men needing a temporary place to stay.

    The Family Place nearly tripled the number of battered men it served last year compared with 2014. The 24 men assisted through November represented about 10 times the figure from just a few years ago, when the organization provided emergency shelter for two or three men annually.

    In response to the escalating need, The Family Place plans to open a separate shelter for battered men early this year. Executive director Paige Flink said it would be the first in Texas and one of the first in the nation.

    “Some people can’t believe me and others are saying, ‘Finally,’” Flink said about the new effort.

    Deputy Police Chief Rob Sherwin said about 20 percent of Dallas’ family violence victims are men. At The Family Place, men accounted for nearly 7 percent of those given emergency shelter last year. Nationally, about 8 percent of abuse victims calling the National Domestic Violence Hotline in November were men, about double the 2014 figure.

    Assisting battered men is a requirement for shelters that receive federal funding. But the issue has long been politically fraught, with some concerned it siphons attention and money from helping abused women. A large majority of abuse victims are women, who also make up a disproportionately large number of those killed.

    Still, men are a substantial minority of those abused. They’re also a group that’s now more likely to seek help thanks to new police procedures, changing gender role attitudes, greater acceptance of homosexuality and overall domestic violence awareness campaigns like the one started by Dallas Mayor Mike Rawlings.

    Flink said her organization already raised the money needed for the shelter with the help of a federal Victim of Crime Act grant but is still looking for the right location. The best option, she said, is something similar to The Family’s Place’s first shelter: a McKinney Avenue house.

    For at least 15 years, The Family Place has provided shelter for abused men, usually in rented hotel rooms or apartments. The number was steady but small until a few years ago.

    This recent surge, Flink said, made the existing model too expensive. She estimated that she spent about $147,000 last year on lodging for men. A small rented space for a separate shelter might cost about half that.

    Also, Flink said the old approach doesn’t provide a suitable setting for helping victims, who could use group therapy, legal assistance and case management.

    “It’s not therapeutic,” Flink said. “They’re isolated.”

    In 2015, Flink said a majority of men The Family Place served was gay. But there also were heterosexual men, some with three and four children.

    The Family Place could not find a male domestic violence victim willing to talk about his experience. The numbers are still relatively small and stigma still large.

    ‘Victim blaming’

    Katie Ray-Jones, president and CEO of the National Domestic Violence Hotline, said this is one of the rare cases when the male victims are at a disadvantage.

    “Your masculinity is challenged,” Ray-Jones said. “There is victim blaming.”

    Flink said her numbers show that several factors are starting to change views about domestic violence, particularly among young people. She said there’s an easing of gender stereotypes and rejection of the idea that an adult man can’t be abused by his wife or girlfriend.

    “The millennial generation doesn’t have the same patriarchal view,” she said.

    Flink said more people realize that death threats, stalking and other behavior don’t require one partner to physically overpower another.

    Also, the greater acceptance of gay relationships — illustrated most recently by U.S. Supreme Court legalization of same-sex marriage — increased the number of men seeking help. Closeted men would often avoid shelters fearing that that could out them to friends, family or co-workers.

    The Dallas police might get the most credit for the increased numbers, Flink said. Previously, the department gave domestic violence victims a card with information about available resources.

    “They’re [victims] in distress, and they might not do that,” Flink said.

    Now, officers responding to these calls fill out an 11-question “lethality” assessment. Depending on the responses, the officer will immediately put the victim on the phone with a representative from The Family Place or Genesis Women’s Shelter.

    Greater awareness

    Sherwin also credits citywide and national campaigns with bringing a greater awareness of domestic violence. The cases of high-profile athletes — such as former Baltimore Ravens running back Ray Rice and Dallas Cowboys defensive end Greg Hardy — also bring the topic out of the shadows.

    Although reports of domestic violence were up in 2015, Sherwin said that’s likely the result of more victims willing to come forward rather than an increase in actual crime.

    “We’ll take these offenses because we’re trying to reduce domestic violence,” he said. “And to reduce it, we have to start getting out from the behind the scenes.”

    That applies to both men and women. Sherwin said the reduction in family violence deaths is a more accurate reflection of progress made.

    Most shelters have taken a similar approach to The Family Place and use hotels and apartments as substitutes for a dedicated shelter.

    In Lancaster, Calif., Valley Oasis pioneered a different approach about 25 years ago. The Southern California nonprofit became the first domestic violence shelter to offer shelter services to battered men, CEO Carol Crabson said. That was considered “taboo” since family violence shelters grew out of the women’s movement.

    In this case, the shelter mixed both men and women victims. Crabson said it didn’t feel right to treat them different, and the two groups could learn from each other.

    “If you were a victim of domestic violence, you deserve the same comprehensive services provided to women,” she said. “This is not a numbers game. This is not a gender thing. This a quality of life issue.”

    Flink said mixing men and women wasn’t an option for The Family Place.

    “We are not going to do that,” she said. “For a woman especially, the dynamic of a man’s violence against her can be frightening. … There’s a therapeutic reason to not mix the populations.”

    But Flink said she still wants to provide the same level of service women have received for decade.

    “I don’t want it to be an afterthought,” she said.

    Read the full article at dallasnews.com!

  • MySweetList 2016- The Family Place

    by Emily Roberts | Jan 04, 2016

    MySweetList 2016: The Family Place

    December 30, 2015
    by Jean Prejean
    MySweetCharity.com

    As we get ready to enter into 2016, take a moment to read The Family Place CEO Paige Flink's 2016 MySweetList in MySweetCharity!

    "What do I wish? I wish women and children were safe from violence at home. I wish there were not so many people in our community who need help to escape family violence, making it hard for us to fill all the requests for shelter. I wish The Family Place had to close because no one needed our services.

    “But in reality, the demand for help ofte...n exceeds our ability to help. So, instead, I have to wish that our amazing supporters will continue to be generous and give to The Family Place so we can be there to say ‘Yes, there is a room for you in the shelter tonight.’

    Read the full article at MySweetCharity.com!

  • Happy Holidays from The Family Place

    by Emily Roberts | Dec 23, 2015

    Happy Holidays from The Family Place

    2015 Holidays at The Family Place - Happy Holidays

    Today, we have 96 women & children at our Safe Campus and 2 men in hotels.

    On behalf of all of them, we thank you for giving them
    a safe place to be this holiday season.

    Below is a letter written by a client of The Family Place.
    Her words show how you make a difference.

    Dear Friend of The Family Place,

    They say it takes someone outside the box to point out what you don’t see in yourself. This is me outside your box today, sharing what I see in you. You have given generously by faith, without actually witnessing firsthand what your donation, funding and sponsorship have accomplished. You fight for those who are too weak to fight for themselves. You clothe, feed and shelter children and women who finally have obtained the courage to say, “no more.” I thank you for being just that for many women like me.

    I made the call, and came to the shelter with only the clothes on my back and a backpack for each child. If it were not for you, I would probably have been killed. You provided classes that helped me learn how to be a mother to my children. You gave me time to myself in order to think what my next step would be. You gave my children joy and therapy because I was not in my right mind to heal them. You provided a roof over my head. You paid for my school so that I could feel confident and proud of myself and accomplished. You helped build my self esteem, allowing me to get a job without fear and anxiety. You fought back for me by providing legal assistance.

    I am humbled and in your debt. You inspire me to give back and do for other women as you have done for me.

    Please continue to give. There is so much to do and so many more like me to save.

    Sincerely,
    Maura

    Thank you for helping us make a difference in Maura's life.

    Thank you for helping us continue to save lives.

    Wishing you and your family a wonderful and safe
    holiday season from The Family Place!

    2015 Holidays at the Family Place - Give Generously

    Happy Holidays from The Family Place

  • Because I could not say no from Paige Flink

    by Emily Roberts | Dec 16, 2015

    Because I couldn't say no...

    I am writing you today at a critical juncture to support the operations of The Family Place for 2015. We are facing a huge deficit and must raise critical funds before December 31, 2015.
     
    This predicament is my fault because I can’t say no to women, children and men whose lives are in danger because of family violence. When our shelter was full, I couldn’t tell these victims that there was no room for them. So we spent $147,000 on hotels in 2015 so we wouldn’t have to turn them away into the face of danger. Many of these rooms were for men who we can’t serve at our Safe Campus.

    • Because I couldn’t say no to providing healthier meals for clients living on our Safe Campus, we spent $174,000 this year on food—a 63 percent increase in our food budget.
    • Because I couldn’t say no to women who needed childcare so that they could look for work and find better jobs, we spent $123,000 on daycare in the community.
    • Because I couldn’t say no to women who needed the resources to move into safe apartments and start new lives, we spent $26,000 on moving costs.

    All of these expenses directly benefited clients because we didn’t say no.

    As the largest provider of domestic violence services in the state of Texas, we are committed to being here for those who need us when they need us most. We hold strongly to the idea that victims' injuries and deaths are identifiable, knowable and preventable—if we are here to answer the calls for help.
     
    Please join me—don’t say no to these vulnerable victims. Every dollar counts. Your support of our services will help us keep them safe.
     
    Sincerely, 
    Paige Flink, CEO

    2015 Hoilday - Paige Flink - Because I couldnt say no

  • New Domestic Violence Shelter for Men in WFAA

    by Emily Roberts | Dec 15, 2015

    New Domestic Violence Shelter for Men in WFAA

    Rebecca Lopez talks with Paige Flink about the growing numbers of men seeking shelter at The Family Place. In light of this need, The Family Place will be opening the first male only shelter in the state of Texas.

    If you need help, please call our 24-Hour Crisis Hotline at 214-941-1991.

  • This is my home because of you

    by Emily Roberts | Dec 10, 2015

    2015 Holidays at The Family Place - This is my home because of you

     

    This holiday season, we hope you know the comfort of a safe and loving home, and we thank you for bringing that gift to 888 women and children who took shelter at our Safe Campus this year.

    In so many ways, the children at The Family Place are just like the children you know, except they want things that many of us take for granted like a safe home. The Family Place not only keeps them safe but also provides comprehensive services and a clear supportive path for them to progress from fear to safety.

    With your generous support today, thousands of children will learn that a home can be safe, love doesn't hurt, and peace can be lasting.

     2015 Holidays at the Family Place - Give Generously

     24-Hour Crisis Hotline:
    214-941-1991

    donations@familyplace.org

    Music Credit: This is my home by Switchfoot

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